Kris Boyson posts ‘it’s not always the man’ in wake of Ella Rae Wise split

The Ex on the Beach star has recently been on a 'sickening' date with a Love Island star

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by Hannah Mellin |
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Ella Rae Wiseand Kris Boyson go way back, as viewers saw in the most recent series of Celebrity Ex On The Beach, as she looked incredibly chuffed when he walked out of the sea for her.

The pair instantly rekindled their relationship, with Ella revealing that she had "always fancied Kris" but he was in and out of relationships (most famously with Bianca Gascoigne) and they left the show official boyfriend and girlfriend 'or mr and missus as Kris calls it'.

When the show wrapped, Kris and Ella fans have been wondering what on earth has happened between the pair, as they haven't been spotted together since they were spotted on a couple of dates in October last year and failed to mention each other on social media.

Many speculated that things hadn't worked out, and they were right, Ella has confirmed that despite being 'friendly', they're not together.

In an Instagram Q&A, Ella was asked, "You and Kris? What's happening now seen anything of you since ex on the beach 🥺."

Replying from her holiday in Dubai, she said, "Will touch up upon the once I reach the uk 🥰 we are on good terms."

Kris and Ella are just friends, apparently

Kris then alluded to the split in a post on his Instagram story. He shared an interview from the page @more.successful where the original post was captioned, "It's not always the man" and the man interviewed in the video echoes similar sentiments.

He said, "Every time a relationship ends it's not always the man. There's plenty of women out here doing s--t they ashamed of.

"I had nothing to do with those 10 relationships she was in before we got into a relationship."

He then goes on to describe how bringing issues and hurt form a previous relationship can impact a current one.

While Kris didn't specifically reference Ella when he shared the post on his story, as this was his most recent break up it is possible it could be in reference to it. It is also worth noting that Kris posted this on Katie Price's 44th birthday, so maybe it was aimed at her? Who's to say?

This news follows Kris' adrenaline fuelled dinner date with Love Island star Elma Pazar.

It's unclear exactly why Kris and Ella ended things, especially after they seemed to be in such a good place after reuniting on Ex On the Beach. In March this year, Ella remained very coy about what really happened between her and Kris when they headed home to Essex, especially as they were spotted on secret dates in October.

In a Instagram Q&A, Ella was asked if she and Kris were still together, and she cheekily replied, "You'll have to continue watching to find out".

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Like most reality TV shows, the stars don't really comment on what happened until the series has wrapped to keep the drama alive. Kris and Ella do still follow each other on Instagram though, so that's something.

Ella's confession comes after she and Kris were 'giving things a go' on the outside world, with a source telling The Sun in October 2021, "They met on Celeb Ex On the Beach and now they're dating.

"It's really early days and I don't know if they're official yet, but it's going really well and they really like each other."

Even if things with Ella didn’t work out, personal trainer Kris has got a fair few celeb ladies’ names in his little black book following his acrimonious split with Katie in 2019.

Ella remained coy when Closer caught up with her after she filmed Ex On The Beach, but she did revealed that her attitude to love changed whilst she was on the show.

"Maybe I do mask over my feelings sometimes, because it's easier," she said.

"I painted all men with the same brush and I would run away. I was quite damaged and I came away from boys and dating and focused on myself and it really helped me."

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Jake Hall, series 14 -17

Jake's time on TOWIE was mainly characterised by his on / off relationship with Chloe Lewis and his alleged cheating on her. He finally (sort of) confessed that he'd done the dirty with Megan McKenna in a very emosh scene on a park bench. Ah, precious memories.

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Jake Hall, 2019

Jake is now engaged to former Real Housewives of Cheshire star Missé Beqiri and they have a child together. Just before Christmas 2018, Jake was given a restraining order following a bust up between the pair.

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Pascal Craymer, series ten

Pascal Cramer walked into TOWIE series ten as the new squeeze of Mario Falcone. Sadly, Mario still had the hots for his former flame Lucy Mecklenburgh. Pascal found out when she watched the episode in which Mario admitted his feelings for Lucy. AWKWARD.

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Pascal Craymer, 2018

Pascal recently dated king of the jungle trouser snake Nick Knowles although they split before he entered I'm a Celebrity...Get Me Out of Here! We do not believe that is a real guitar.

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Lauren Goodger, series one - six, 16 and 19

Remember when Lauren looked like this? She was a TOWIE OG and her on / off relationship with Mark Wright, including getting engaged in a car park, was the stuff of reality TV dreams.

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Lauren Goodger, 2019

Lauren is still much loved by the public although her she is still unlucky in love. In summer 2019, the reality TV queen kickstarted her hunt for love with the help of the agents on Celebs Go Dating.

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Maria Fowler, series 1 - 3

Maria, on the left with Joey Essex and Chloe Sims in 2011, was in the show from the get-go but her TV career was rocked when it was alleged she'd worked as an escort. She's since said she quit 'by mutual consent' after she refused an on-screen romance with Mick Norcross.

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Maria Fowler, 2018

Maria's now a proud mummy, engaged to be married and a self-proclaimed permanent make-up artist.

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Dan Osborne, series 8 - 14

Dan Osborne, pictured here with James Argent in 2013, managed seven series on the show. He was given the boot after a series of recordings, claiming to show Dan being verbally abusive towards his ex-girlfriend Megan Tomlin, came to light.

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Dan Osborne, 2018

Dan is still in the spotlight due to his relationship with ex-EastEnders star Jacqueline Jossa. In May 2018 he described their marriage as "unhappy", but the couple have share daughters Ella and Mia together. Dan also has a son Teddy.

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Amber Dowding, series 18 - 21

Amber was part of a mega cull of seven Towie characters in January 2018. She claimed that she and her boyfriend Chris Clark were cut because they were happy. They've now split and Chris has reappeared on the show.

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Amber Dowding, 2019

If Amber's social media is anything to go by, she now appears to mostly be on holiday. Pretty goals from where we're sitting.

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Mike Hassini, series 16 - 18 and 21

Mike Hassini brought a hot bod to TOWIE and...not much else. He was cut in January 2018 due to a lack of storylines as he was loved-up outside the telly show.

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Mike Hassini, 2019

Mike is working as a PT, still loved-up, and still has a very hot bod. Blimey.

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Jack Rigden, series 20 - 21

Jack Rigden tried hard, so hard, to make an impression on Towie but his lack of on-screen romance and agg saw him get very little camera time. He was part of the big cull of January 2018.

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Jack Rigden, 2019

Jack's Instagram bio describes him as an "absolute geezer". Which is nice.

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Jordan Brook, series 20 - 21

Jordan and Jack were brought in as friends of Megan McKenna. When she quit, they were left without any storylines.

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Jordan Brooks, 2019

Jordan has recently broken up with Sofia Filipe of Ex On The Beach, following a year-long romance.

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Ricky Rayment, series 4 - 14

We still think very fondly of Ricky. His rocky relationship with Jess Wright was a huge part of the show but when they finally broke up, well... Ricky left the show "by mutual agreement"with Towie bosses.

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Ricky Rayment, 2019

Ricky now seems to mainly go fishing.

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Tom Pearce, series 5 - 13

Remember when Tom Pearce dated Lauren Goodger following her split from Mark Wright? That was an odd time. He was quietly shown the back doorof the show in 2014.

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Tom Pearce, 2019

Honestly? We're not 100% sure what Tom is actually doing these days. He used to work in the City, and his holidays certainly look pretty epic, so maybe that.

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Grace Andrews, series 11 - 12

Grace almost had a romantic relationship with Lewis Bloor (shudder) and that was the beginning and end of her time on Towie.

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Grace Andrews, 2019

Grace is now involved in a semi-permanent make-up company. Those Towie stars must really hate cleanser.

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Fran Parman, series 11 - 16

Fran's original romantic interest was Tom Pearce but he stepped aside to allow Diags to woo her. Bad luck. Their relationship was turbulent but apparently not turbulent enough for show producers. Diags stayed, she went.

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Fran Parman, 2019

Fran and Diags split and she now hangs out in clothing that does not look very practical. The star still enjoys partying and she is often seen out with ex Love Island stars.

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Jasmin Walia, series 1 and 7-17

Jasmin managed eight series until she was given the boot. In 2015 her agent stated: "TOWIE is very storyline dependent and Jasmin did not have much going on that we could show on screen."Ouch. She went on to audition for The X Factor. It did not go well. She also took part in reality show Desi Rascals, that lasted for one series.

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Jasmin Walia, 2019

Jasmin is still being papped, which is more than can be said for some of the other ex-Towie stars.

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Harry Derbridge, series 1- 3 and 12

Harry Derbridge was a Towie original and still holds a very special place in our hearts. He made a welcome return to the show as Bobby Norris's love interest but, allegedly, cheated on him.

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Harry Derbridge, 2019

Harry now works it as a make-up artist. Is it us, or does he look like he might have had a little help with lip fillers?

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Billie Faiers, series 2 - 18

Billie followed in her sister's footsteps and joined the TOWIE cast in the second series. The beauty was never involved in any of the love stories on the show, yet was often locked in fiery rows.In 2016, the 29 year old left the reality show after five years to concentrate on her family and other business ventures.

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Billie Faiers, 2019

Billie and her new-hubbie Greg got hitched in March 2019 in a luxurious wedding in the Maldives.They became parents for the first time to Nelly in 2014, followed by their son Arthur born in March 2017. Billie is the director of high-street fashion brand Minnies Boutique and stars in the Mummy Diaries alongside her sister Sam.

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Sam Faiers, series 1 - 11

Sam appeared in the first episode of The Only Way Is Essex and starred in eleven series of the show. Initially, she was involved with Mark Wright despite him being in an on/off relationship with Lauren Goodger In series 2, Sam started her romance with Joey Essex and they got engaged during series 8. In March 2014, Faiers announced that she would be taking a break from TOWIE after the end of its eleventh series, due to her recent Crohn's disease diagnosis.

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Sam Faiers, 2019

Sam now stars in her and Billie's spin-off show, The Mummy Diaries on ITVBe. The reality star has children Paul, 4, and Rosie, 2, with her boyfriend Paul Knightley. She runs her own clothing line, All Bits London and lives in Hertfordshire.

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Ferne McCann, series 9 - 17

Ferne McCann made her debut on series 9 of The Only Way Is Essex in 2013, while on holiday in Marbella. Ferne is best known for her on/off relationship with TOWIE star Charlie Sims (Chloe Sims brother - awks!)

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Ferne McCann, 2019

Ferne came runner up on I'm A Celebrity... Get Me Out Of Here! in 2015, losing out to new bestie Vicky Pattison.Since then she has landed several presenting roles and seemed loved up with her boyfriend Arthur Collins. However, things went sour when Arthur was arrested for throwing acid in a nightclub.She gave birth to baby Sunday in November 2017. Ferne now raises her child alone as a single parent, after calling time on her relationship with Arthur. She stars in her own show, Ferne McCann: First Time Mum

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James 'Arg' Argent, series 1–19 and 21–23

Arg shot to fame on the reality show in 2010 alongside then girlfriend Lydia Bright. After his first split from Lydia, his on-off romance with Gemma Collins first started. ​Between 2013 - 2015 Gemma dated newbie Rami, while Arg got back together with Lydia.In October 2014, Argent was suspended from The Only Way Is Essex after failing a drugs test. He returned to the series, but left in 2018.

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James 'Arg' Argent, 2019

Despite attempting to mantain his up-and-down body transformation, Arg is still in an on-off relationship with Gemma Collins. He occasionally stars in her new show, Diva Forever.

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Lydia Bright, series 1–7, 9, and 11–20

She shot to fame as part of the original cast of Towie in 2010. She became known for her on-off relationship with fellow cast member James 'Arg' Argent.Lydia and Args' relationship pre-dates that of even Towie as the pair have been on and off since they were teenagers, but after his infidelity and drug use, Lydia called it quits.

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Lydia Bright, 2019

In August, Lydia made the announcement that she's expecting a child. This will be Lydia's first child, which she conceived during her relationship with Lee Cronin. The two, however, are no longer together.

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She also hinted that fans would get some insight into her most recent fall out with Kelsey Stratford when one asked, “Did Kelsey steal your business? How do you feel about it? I’d be gutted and would never do that.”

“[I] wouldn’t say stole,” she replied, “But something along [those] lines. Soon to be explained.”

Hmmm.

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Following an altercation with Chloe Brockett, Ella has heavily hinted that she will be back on TOWIE this June.

It comes after she insisted she wasn't 'axed', she was 'rested' in an exclusive interview with Closer.

"Having a break was something I did really need. I feel like it was sort of a little bit of a blessing in disguise because being on TOWIE, the storylines themselves can always be quite tricky and personal. It was ongoing drama and realistically for me, I needed that time to focus on my mind and my goals.

"I do miss it. It was my home, it’s made me who I am today and opened so many doors for me. Hopefully if or when I go back it will be a completely different story," she admitted.

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