Madonna takes aim at social media and tells daughter Lourdes to stop ‘comparing herself’ to her mother

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Madonna has opened up about the dangers of social media on self-esteem and has warned her daughter Lourdes not to compare herself to her mother’s success.

The singer, who recently celebrated turning 60, admitted she was happy that she hit the limelight before the widespread use of social media apps like Instagram.

In an interview with The Sun, Madonna said, “You get caught up in comparing yourself to others. I think Instagram is made to make you feel bad. People are really a slave to winning people’s approvals.”

Madonna, who has 14 million followers on Instagram, went on to take aim at the toxic nature of social media.

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She confessed she was “lucky enough” to have a life in the music industry and gain notoriety before social media was invented. She added. “I did have that time to develop as an artist and a human without feeling the pressure of judgment of other people or comparing myself to other people.”

The star, who released her 14th studio album ‘Madame X’ this week – four years on from her tumble at her BRITS performance - went on to say that she has warned her eldest daughter Lourdes, 22, not to compare herself to her mother.

Lourdes, 22, who Madonna shares with ex-boyfriend, actor Carlos Leon, is currently embarking on a career in dance. Her famous mum used the interview to say she has warned her daughter against comparisons.

She said, “So I say to my daughter, 'You weren’t put on this earth to be me, you were put on this earth to be you. You be you.’”

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The hitmaker went on to add that she encouraged Lourdes not to be “consumed with the way you look” but to use her platform to be a “good role model for other young women.”

The 22-year-old is the eldest of Madonna’s six children. She also shares 18-year-old Rocco with ex-husband of eight years, director Guy Ritchie, and adopted children David and Mercy, both 13, and Stelle and Estere, both six.

The star appeared on the Graham Norton show recently and confessed that she believes her children may have had “less challenging” lives if their mother wasn’t a superstar.

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