I saw last week that Vicky Pattison said that she didn’t share a bed with her boyfriend, even though they live together, because she’s not on contraception and doesn’t want to get pregnant.
This sparked a bit of a debate with people talking about the importance of sharing a bed with your partner. It’s really important to me! I really love sleeping next to my husband Phil in our bed – it’s our favourite spot.
Phil actually calls me “half mattress, half woman” because of how much I love our bed. It’s our safe place, where we can talk about our days, just us two.
I think it’s really good for our relationship to come together at the end of the day and chat about how we’re feeling – as we often lead separate lives in the day.
We haven’t always spent every night sharing a bed, as Phil is a footballer. When he has an away game he’s not here – or, if he had a game or early start, he used to sleep in the spare room when our boys Rocco, 11, Renz, seven, and Ralphi, four, were young so he didn’t disturb us. I’d really miss him when he wasn’t there.
However, there are definitely times Phil is in bed, and I wish he wasn’t – like when he snores, I’m fuming! But I couldn’t have it any other way.
I do think every relationship is different though, and no one can judge the way others do things. It’s about whatever feels right for you.
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Magali Gorré
"If you're gonna cross me, you'd better not cross me. You don't mess with Magali."Magali starred in Real Housewives of Cheshire in 2015. Although the housewife only appeared in series one and two, after shouting-matches and rifts, she definitely left a lasting impression on her co-stars. Magali even found herself wrapped up in a twitter-spat with RHOC star Ester Dee in spring 2018, when Ester claimed she didn't know who Magali was.
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Magali Gorré
Four years on, Magali is still living the highlife. The football-mum prides herself on her luxurious lifestyle, which she regularly shares with her 100k+ Instagram followers.
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Missé Beqiri
Missé Beqiri joined the RHOC cast in April 2016 for series three, but by series five in March 2017, Missé had been demoted to a 'guest housewife'.
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Missé Beqiri
The model divorced her footballer husband of two years, Anders Lindegaard and got together with Jake Hall - yes, Chloe Lewis' ex from TOWIE. Missé and Jake went on to get engaged and have a daughter together, River. But it hasn't all been plain-sailing for the two reality stars - as Jake received a brief restraining orderto stay away from Missé in December 2018. The pair are back together and co-parenting baby River and Missé's son from her marriage with Anders.
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Ampika Pickston
Ampika Pickston was an original housewife - joining the RHOC family in series one and lasting until 2017, when she left after series five.
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Ampika Pickston
After a long on/off relationship with partner Mark, Ampika revealed in July 2018 that she was engaged after a new whirlwind romance. Whilst Ampika continues to keep her mystery romance under wraps, she promotes her own weightloss company - Skinny Revolution throughout her social media.
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Leanne Brown
Fans were shocked when OG cast member Leanne Brown didn't return for series six in spring 2018. After an upsetting feud and long court battle with ex-bestie Dawn, Leanne decided to call it quits on the ITVBe show.
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Leanne Brown
Leanne still keeps her fans up to date with her enviable WAG lifestyle - and reportedly even has a tell-all memoir in the pipeline.
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Stacey Forsey
Stacey Forsey became a guest-housewife in series one (no - we don't remember either) before joining the cast full time for series three - six.She was demoted to 'friend' status by series seven.
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Stacey Forsey
Nowadays the artist-turned-writer promotes her lifestyle brand and book, Scrumplicious Sweet Treats: Gluten, Dairy and Egg Free, through Instagram.
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Nermina Pieters-Mekic
Nermina lasted just under a year on the hit ITVBe show before producers made her a 'guest-housewife'.
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Nermina Pieters-Mekic
According the Nermina's website, the aspiring pop-star has begun a new chapter of her life focusing on re-establishing her music and modelling career in the UK and worldwide, whilst enjoying her suburban life with her husband, dogs and horses.
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Lauren Simon
OG housewife Lauren lasted an incredible eight series on the show and was loved by fans for saying exactly what she thought. Remember that squirm-inducing scene with Taylor Ward and Sam Reece? Exactly.
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Lauren Simon
We were devastated when Lauren quit the show before series nine. Her on / off friend Dawn Ward said: "Lauren has some personal stuff going on."Lauren's an amazing person, I am missing her to bits. I speak to her daily but she has other commitments at the minute that she needs to concentrate on."In January 2020 it was revealed that Lauren was back in the bosom of the RHOC family - yaaaaas.
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Perla Navia
Perla Navia was a housewife from series seven to ten, and was introduced as the yoga teacher of Rachel Lugo's husband John.
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Perla Navia
Perla announced she would not be returning for series 11, and wrote on Instagram: "And the time to hang my heels is finally here! Leaving the show was a difficult decision but necessary."I will miss every single person from the unbelievably production crew that make the show happen, they work endless hours to create the magic and peeps I'll take my hat off to you! Thank you."
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Leilani Dowding
Page 3 model Leilani Dowding lasted just one season (ten) in the show but in her brief appearance managed to rile many cast mates, including Dawn Ward and Christine McGuinness.
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Leilani Dowding
Leilani revealed in January 2020 that she would not be returning to the show. In March 2020, she and her rocker boyfriend, The Cult's guitarist Billy Duffy, became engaged.
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‘I was diagnosed with ADHD after lockdown’
I’ve suffered with crippling anxiety for years and it’s something I still struggle with. When lockdown restrictions started lifting recently, I went to a specialist about it, as it’s been so hard to live with during the pandemic.
I explained how I’d been feeling and, within minutes, he said he suspected I had attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) – which has symptoms including inattentiveness, hyperactivity and impulsiveness.
After doing a test, it showed that I was high on the charts. I was given medication for it to help. I didn’t know much about ADHD, as it’s not really spoken about. I’ve learned a lot since my diagnosis and can recognise the symptoms, like restlessness – I can notice it in other people, too. I definitely feel people need to talk about it more often – it really is so common.
I hope there comes a time when people speak about their mental health issues just as easily as saying, “I’ve got a cold”. There’s nothing to be ashamed of.