Ryan Thomas claims he doesn’t want more kids as Lucy Mecklenburgh ‘doesn’t prioritise him anymore’

Parenthood has its challenges for the pair

Ryan Thomas and Lucy Mecklenburgh

by Connie Hack |
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Former Corononation Street star Ryan Thomas has spoken out about parenthood with his fiancée Lucy Mecklenburgh after welcoming their son into the world.

The pair had their son Roman in March 2020 and Ryan also has a daughter from a previous relationship, but now the soap star has opened up about the challenges he faces with parenthood.

Talking on his podcast Mancs On The Mic with his brothers, Love Island's Scott Thomas and Emmerdale's Adam Thomas, Ryan had said that when Lucy talks about having another child and is still holding onto the baby clothes it "scares" him.

When Lucy mentioned having another baby, Ryan didn't seem overjoyed about it.

"I shouted: 'What? What did you say? Another?! No!'

"She’s still holding onto it. I’m not even out the other side and she’s still holding on that – she wants another one," he explained.

He openly confessed, "Being a parent is testing, but do you know what I miss the most? I miss just me and Lucy.

"I don’t actually want to be single anymore because I really love my relationship, but we don’t get any time."

Ryan went on to say, "I was talking to my mate about this the other day and he said: 'When you go out with Lucy, do you enjoy it?' and I actually really still enjoy it.

"When it’s me and her, I really enjoy being in her company and we laugh and we joke - but we just don’t get time to do that any more."

The 36 year-old went on to explain, "I always say to her: 'I want the old Lucy back sometimes', it’s not that she’s not there - it’s just I’m not the main priority any more.

"Roman comes first. I just miss that. I said to her the other day: 'Shall we just go away, the two of us? Let’s go away for like a long weekend or something', and she’s going: 'Oh I can’t because I’m feeding.'"

"I’m like, I just want to escape our parenting for a long weekend and just let our hair down like we did before he was here."

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And although Ryan admits that he still gets on well with his other half, he's feeling hopeful that they'll have more time together as Roman gets older.

"I think that time will come eventually and I’m really holding onto that. The good thing about being a parent is you still enjoy each other’s company without your children, because if you don’t there’s no longevity in your relationship and your family if you can’t enjoy each other’s time.

"When he [Roman] goes to bed, I love when we watch a film together and we pause it and we talk about it... and that’s great that we’ve still got that, because if you don’t have that I don’t think that that family can still remain the same."

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Ryan has definitely proved his still very much loved-up with Lucy after they both shared posts of their Valentine's Day.

Lucy posted a photo of herself surrounded by red and white roses, and many balloons hanging from the ceiling.

Captioned the Instagram snap she wrote, "WOW wow Wow!!!! Came home from a walk today to this 😱🌹😍🤗❤️ literally had no idea! love you @ryanthomas84 ❤️🥰 #valentinesday".

While Ryan also posted a photo on his Instagram of their candle lit dinner set up.

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