Tess Daly: who is the Strictly Come Dancing host and mum of two?

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Tess Daly

by Seamus Duff |
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Tess Daly is arguably the golden girl of Saturday night television – and Sunday nights too.

As co-host of the BBC’s hit show, Strictly Come Dancing, Tess entertains huge audiences (frequently over 10 million) as she guides famous faces to the ballroom and gives them a shoulder to cry on when they get voted off.

But there is a lot more to the star who has barely taken any time off since starting work as a teenager – even when she gave birth to the two children (16-year-old Phoebe and 12-year-old Amber) she has with hubby Vernon Kay.

Who is Tess Daly's husband?

Tess married fellow TV presenter Vernon Kay in 2003 after meeting hosting T4 together.

Tess Daly and Vernon Kay

They might be ultimate #couplegoals these days, but Vernon and Tess's marriage hit a rocky patch in 2010 after his sexts to model Rhian Sugden were exposed.

In 2017, Tess referenced the incident, describing marriage as “a work in progress”. She added, “All marriages have their moments. Vernon and I are just people at the end of the day.” However, Vernon recently said the couple had “moved on”.

What is Tess's real name?

Tess was born in Stockport on 27 April 1969. She has a younger sister called Karen, and her dad, Vivian, worked in a wallpaper factory mixing dyes and her mum, Sylvia, worked in a paper mill. But her actual name is Helen Elizabeth Daly.

How old is Tess Daly?

Brace yourselves... Tess Daly is 52 years old.

We know, right? We've always been mindblown by her age-defying looks.

What else has Tess Daly done?

Vivian and Sylvia are also perhaps the reason Tess has a strong work ethic (even if she ignored their career advice).

"My mum and dad considered a good job either nursing or working at a bank because, then, a job at a bank was for life and you had an interest-free mortgage and a pension. My mum thought that was the perfect job and tried to persuade me," she said.

We're glad she didn't listen...

Tess Daly
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Tess was 'discovered' outside a McDonalds in Manchester a few weeks before she turned 18. She worked all over the world modelling for brands and on magazine covers.

Tess Daly Duran Duran music video

Tess makes a sultry cameo in the video for their 1990 song Violence of Summer (Love’s Taking Over) and has a rather starring role in the video for their follow up song Serious (set in a circus). Rock and roll!

Not content with perking up Duran Duran videos, Tess also featured in the Sweet Harmony music video for electro dance band The Beloved in 1993.

Tess Daly Big Breakfast

Tess moved to New York while still a model when a friend suggested she try interviewing. She grabbed a camera and rang up controversial British writer Quentin Crisp and asked if she could interview him. He said yes. They hit it off. And footage from the chat went into a show reel that Tess used to land presenting roles back in the UK.

Producers at Channel 4 were impressed when they saw Tess’s showreel and immediately snapped her up to host a spot on iconic early morning show The Big Breakfast for their Find Me A Model competition (she was an expert in modelling, after all). She then went on to host other shows including MTV dating show Singled Our, SMTV Live, Smash Hits TV, and Make Me A Supermodel.

Is Tess Daly on Strictly Come Dancing?

Tess joined presenting legend Sir Bruce Forsyth in 2004 when the BBC’s Strictly Come Dancing show launched and has been the longest serving host ever since – appearing on all series and specials since. Brucie left the show in 2014, with Claudia Winkleman taking over from him. Tess took three weekends off in the second series to give birth to her first daughter.

Speaking of her relationship to Bruce before he passed away she said, "He wouldn’t want to think of himself as a father figure to me, more of a friend – he’s got five girls [and a son] of his own – but he was always a very supportive presence.

"I can still ask him about anything. He’s a special chap. Every time I see him, I tell him I love him and give him a hug," she added.

Awww.

Bruce sadly died later that year.

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Tess Daly Children in Need

Tess landed another iconic hosting role in 2008 when she joined the late Sir Terry Wogan to host the annual Children in Need television show.

Most recently she hosted alongside Radio host Greg James as Children in Need aired for the first time following Terry’s sad death at the start of the year.

Tess Daly Family

Sadly Tess’s dad, Vivian, died in September 2003 – 18 days after Tess and Vernon got married.

While the star is glad her dad saw her walk up the aisle, she is sad he never got to meet Phoebe and Amber.

"It breaks my heart that he never knew his grandchildren because he would have adored them. I can just see him bouncing them on his lap, and it makes my breath catch in my throat," she said.

With her own kids, Tess prides herself on the fact she has never hired a nanny and thinks it is great to be as involved in her children’s lives as possible.

"I don’t want to hand over a role that I so thoroughly enjoy myself. I love those moments – the homework, the school run, when I get to chat to other mums. That’s real life," Tess says.

And don’t expect Tess and Vernon’s girls to be one of those typical spoiled kids of famous people types.

"We’ve always been aware of teaching them the value of things," Tess says.

"I try to explain that stuff doesn’t just arrive, and that when we go to work, it’s to pay for holidays and treats. I’d hate to have a spoilt brat – I’d think I hadn’t done my job properly. I want them to be appreciative," she adds.

Good parenting advice all round, really.

When Vernon went into the I'm a Celeb castle in 2020, Tess posted her daughters' faces on social media for the first time, but she's normally very strict about keeping them out of the public eye.

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Tess Daly dogs

Tess is ALWAYS instagramming her pet dogs.

She has a tiny chuawa called Blue and a Maltese Shitzu named Minnie and they are both pretty adorable.

'Minnie and Blue ready for breakfast!' she wrote on Instagram with a snap of the pair when Blue was a puppy.

So precious.

And it’s not just her own pooches that Tess love – she usually hangs out at and is involved with Crufts.

Joining up with ex-Strictly judge Alesha Dixon, the pair promote dog care at the annual dog show. And Tess has also campaigned to raise awareness about lung worm, an infection that can kill pooches.

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Tess Daly flying

Despite all those years of traveling the world as a model, Tess says she is terrified of flying.

"Since becoming a mother, and even more so since I’ve had my second child, I’m just not keen on flying anymore," she confessed in a 2013 interview.

Tess even went to see a specialist for help to fight her fear.

"I actually get terrified in the air now to the point where I’ve had to see a specialist to deal with my fear of flying. I’d say it’s at least 70 per cent better now since speaking to someone and trying to rationalise the fear," she said.

A stiff gin and tonic usually does the trick for us – and then ten more once the plane is in the air.

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