My husband of 37 years (he’s 65 and I’m 54) hasn’t been interested in me for 14 years. He sleeps in a separate room and backs away if I try to get near him. Recently, he told me he’d had a fling but says I should get over it. He also didn’t flinch when I suggested I take a lover. *Carol, by email *
Tracey says: Backing away from you, sleeping separately, not caring if you take a lover: he not only isn’t interested in sex with you, he’s not interested in affection or intimacy. He’s barely throwing you scraps and you deserve so much more. Get yourself some legal advice and get out of there.