Proud mum: ‘Kenzie was always meant to be my son’

Stacey Flanagan has opened up about the heartwarming way she became a mum

Stacy Flanagan adoption story

by Kaya Terry and Bella Evennett-Watts |
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Stacy Flanagan, 37, from Manchester, says, “When my four siblings and I flew the nest, my parents became foster carers. Seeing how rewarding they found it, I decided to do the same. As a single mum to daughters Sky, 16, and Destini, 13, and with experience working in childcare, I knew I could provide valuable support to children in need.

“After eight months of interviews and background checks in December 2012, I was told there was a newborn baby, Kenzie, with Down’s Syndrome (DS), whose birth mum couldn’t care for him. I didn’t know how long I’d have him for – just as long as it took to find him a home.

Stacy Flanagan adoption story
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“I did a lot of research to make sure I knew as much as possible about Down’s Syndrome before meeting Kenzie. At two weeks old, I took him home. He was on 16 types of medication, and at six months he had surgery on his heart – common among children with DS – which was such a scary time.

“I was never meant to be a long-term foster carer for Kenzie, but his biological mother wasn’t granted custody rights, so I carried on looking after him, while we waited for him to find adoptive parents. Kenzie slotted right into the family and got on brilliantly with my daughters.”

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She continued, “When Kenzie was five years old, the foster agency explained that they felt he was too much work for one person. I was heartbroken and as I compiled photos and memories, I couldn’t imagine Kenzie going to another family because he was such an important part of mine. So I decided to adopt him myself with support from my parents. I was made Kenzie’s legal mother in 2015.

“Kenzie loves hugs and kisses, but finds it difficult to communicate, so he can get frustrated. But I’ve never regretted my decision. I never intended to adopt, but Kenzie was always meant to be my son.”

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