The average cost of going to a hen do is anything up to a WHOPPING £507 per person
The typical hen do used to consist of a few drinks or a meal out with a few cheeky willy straws thrown in for good measure.
But now they’re more likely to be full-blown holidays, complete with swanky apartment, fun activities and clubbing (hello Michelle Keegan and THAT hen party in Dubai).
However, whether you’re attending or planning a hen, you CAN save cash while still enjoying an awesome bash.
We've already looked at all the different ways to throw a hen party, but here are some more tips for if you want to give the bestie an epic send-off without landing yourself in debt in the process.
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Book early
Book next year's venue now for the best deal. "Most venues bump up prices in peak months like June to September, and lower them in less popular months. How much does the date matter? If you can pick a different month, you could save a fortune," says Debs Vickers, finance expert on moneyguru.com.
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Cashback
"If you do go away, book flights and accommodation through a cashback site," says Abigail Yearly, from Topcashback.co.uk. "You can earn money back with hundreds of travel retailers, including 12% cashback at Expedia and 8% at Lastminute.com." Compare Airbnb and budget hotels too, who often sign you up to their priority schemes when you make a big booking.
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Barter with bars
"Haggle the cost of a booth or a drinks package," says Abigail. "It's easier to get a good deal when the bar owners know you're celebrating and will be putting money behind their bar. And if you're going for a meal, choose a BYO [bring your own] restaurant." Also, think about throwing a "Sten"– combined hen and stag do – as the more people, the better the discounts.
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Host at home
Cut accommodation costs by hosting at home. "Create a mini festival in the garden," suggests Darren Williams from Promotionalcodes.org.uk. "Decorate with bunting and blankets and make a playlist of the bride's favourite tracks. Hire beauty therapists and have pamper stations offering massages, manis, pedis and facials." Try apps blow LTD, BEYOU and Urban Massage. Sporty hen? Play "sports day" games, too.
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DIY the decorations
"Make a selfie wall by tying lengths of coloured ribbon to the washing line," says Kate Beavis, owner of blog Magpiewedding.com. "Or make personalised bunting; design colourful triangles on PowerPoint with letters spelling 'Team Bride'. Print, hole punch the top corners, then thread."
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Try wine tasting
Forget expensive cocktail- making or wine-tasting classes. "Do your own research and impress your cheese and wine-loving hens," says Samantha Cross from i heart Wines. "Make scorecards and ask each hen to bring along a different cheese. If your hens love fizz, try prosecco tasting instead."
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Gallery: lessons we learned from soap weddings
Lessons we learned from soap weddings STACKED
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1) Don’t say: "It’s the happiest day of my life
Those little words are all it takes to ensure that something absolutely dreadful happens and it actually being one of the worst days of your existence. And someone will probably die. Also goes for: "Everything's going to be ok", "I'll never leave you" and: "I've never been happier."Like in Hollyoaks when Max Cunningham promised bride Stephanie Dean: "It's all going to be ok." It obviously wasn't. The ink had barely dried on the wedding certificate when Max was mowed down by a car as he tried to protect his brother from being hit. Weep.
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2) Don’t be pregnant
Unless you want your wedding thunder to be stolen by a newborn. If you're very pregnant at your wedding, prepare for your waters to break all over your nice posh frock. It should also be noted that heavily pregnant guests should be avoided for the same reason.Over in Walford, Janine Butcher, Ronnie and Honey Mitchell all said 'I do' while heavily pregnant. Honey's waters broke in church, Janine gave birth prematurely and Ronnie delivered her baby while in a coma. So, just saying.
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3) Do ask the vicar to skip the 'any objections' bit
Because someone always pipes up. And they've never got anything nice to say. Especially Tracy Barlow.When her arch nemesis, Carla Connor, was set to get her happy ever after with Nick Tilsley, Tracy was only to happy to jump in and object. She revealed that the blushing bride had cheated on Nick with Robert.Tracy had a taste of her own medicine when Becky McDonald revealed Tracy had been lying about the cause of her miscarriage to hubby-to-be Steve McDonald. Only Becky held back and let the pair tie the knot before dropping the bomb. Nice work, Becky.
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4) Don’t invite any long-lost relatives which have just turned up
You know they're only going to bring the police to your ceremony because they're on the run for murder. It's standard.That's exactly what happened when Robron tried to get married in the Woolpack in Emmerdale. Faith Dingle was arrested and the wedding nearly didn't happen. Luckily the boys got to say their vows in the end - and we've even heard rumours that they may have another wedding when Aaron comes out of jail. Best buy another hat...
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5) Do marry in church – the Soap Gods prefer it
If Ronnie Mitchell had been more traditional and opted for a nice church ceremony rather than a hotel (with a pool), she'd have lived to tell the tale.Also it's worth bearing in mind to keep your wedding dress fairly simple. You know, just in case you have to leap into a swimming pool and fish out your sister.It's important to note that drowning in a church is very unlikely. Unless someone holds your head under the Holy Water.
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6) Don’t have an affair while you’re engaged
Even if you think you've kept your secret pretty well, you can bet your bottom dollar that someone knows – and they've decided your nuptials is the perfect place to reveal all.Debbie Dingle learned this the hard way when her affair with new husband Pete Barton's brother, Ross, was revealed to all the guests at the wedding.Luckily (ish) the drama of the affair was diluted a bit when a helicopter crashed into the venue. Phew.
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7) Avoid rooftops
Particularly in Walford. It never ends well.Both Bradley Branning and Stella Mitchell ran up onto rooftops on their respective wedding days. Neither lived to tell the tale.
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8) Don’t forget that you’re already married
With all the excitement about getting wed, it's easy to forget some stuff. Maybe the rings, the something borrowed – or that you've already got a spouse. It's easily done, eh Max Branning? And you, Peter Barlow.Both of these chancers already had wives when they attempted to marry Tanya Branning and Shelley Unwin. Must've just slipped their minds.
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9) Don’t lie about your child having cancer
Here's the thing, if you have to lie about your daughter having a terminal illness to make sure your betrothed actually goes through with the wedding, it's probably not meant to be.EastEnders' Ian Beale realised he was punching above his weight with Melanie Healey (who wanted to be with Steve Owen). He used Lucy's cancer scare to keep her by his side and even lied about her having cancer when she'd actually had the all clear.
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10) Only marry someone local
If you go getting all cocky and start dating out of your post code, it's almost inevitable your hubby or wifey-to-be will be a serial killer. And that's best case scenario.When Corrie's Gail Platt met and married outsider, Richard Hillman, she didn't know that he would soon turn into the most prolific serial killer soap had ever seen.
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11) Don't invite your ex
Who even does that? Well, everyone in soap to be honest. Phil and Sharon even had their wedding reception at The Vic, where of course Shirley is a licencee. And they wondered why it all ended in tears....
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EastEnders
In related news: the names of the women most likely to make good wives has been revealed and, while we're hella sceptical, it's worth a look for fun if nothing else.
No sign of a men who are most likely to make good husbands list yet...