READ: 18 signs you’re dating the wrong person

There is no better feeling than falling in love with someone - and having them fall in love with you.

But how do you know if they’re The One… or The Wrong One?

Taking to Whisper, the site where people share their anonymous confessions, a number of people have shared their own advice on how to spot The Wrong One.

From the way they make you feel, to the things they make you say, Whisper users have painted a pretty compelling picture of what you don’t want from your significant other.

Are you ready for this?

![How do you know when you're dating the wrong person? ]

![If he doesn't really pay attention to you unless for sex..! ]

![When it seems like a lot of effort to do something you really don't wanna do ]

![They don't make you happy. They don't make you smile when they smile. You don't miss them whenever they're away. You just feel a certain way with and without them]

![When your questioning your relationship too much. ]

![You change yourself to try and fit the idea of what you think they want]

![Trust your gut. Also, if people you respect are raising red flags, do your best to step outside the relationship and ask what advice YOU would be giving yourself about it...]

![When you have to rationalize every time you think about leaving em.]

![When there's crying more often than laughing]

![The oral sex isn't good. It's like a proxy for how much you actually want each other]

![You can feel yourself going insane, but you try to convince yourself that the relationship is "worth it."]

![When your friends and family don't like them. Your family and friends know what's best]

![When you want to work it out and all they do is blame you for the problems at hand. ]

![If they don't give you the same feeling as when the pizza guy arrives they're probably not the one]

![When you feel more alone when you're with them, or you just don't feel a connection.]

![You have the thought "You're a fucking idiot" more than 15 times a day. ]

![When you look at them and they aren't who you thought they were.]

That’s a lot to take into consideration, isn’t it?

Of course, plenty of visitors to their site had their own answer to the question.

When asked ‘How do you know if you’re dating the wrong person?’, almost all of them responded smartly: “When you have to ask yourself that question.”

What do you make of these signs - do you think they’re truly indicative of a bad relationship?

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