NSFW: ‘How to make me come’ blog claims to help make men better at sex

One thing that many couples struggle with in the bedroom is mutual pleasure.

Though many women don’t see orgasm as the ultimate goal when sleeping with a partner, it’s definitely a very welcome occurrence.

But the female orgasm needn’t be so elusive to men thanks to a new blog that’s hit the Internet.

‘How to make me come’ is a tumblr page that invites women to anonymously describe what it is that makes them tick, and some ladies have made sure to go into detail about how to help them hit the big ‘O’.

Nearly 100 women have contributed to the blog, and the insights are making it a must-read for men around the world seeking to please their partners.

The importance of foreplay

“So we’ve been making out for a while, and that’s great! Even once I’m writhing against you, continue to take your time. Experiment with qualities of touching and try to relax and know that we’re creating this arousal together. This isn’t me putting you up to some test, this is one grand foray into the art of play and pleasure. You can try touching me lightly, slowly, in circles, in lines.

“You can try kissing me, licking me, sucking on my body, everywhere but my vagina. Save the main event for last. A word on my nipples: it’s rare, but I’ve come just by being touched here, so WOW, please don’t forget about them! Tug on them, bite them (gently!), swirl your tongue around them, embrace them, knead them, and then move on to the next one, and then back again. This will get me hotter than pretty much anything else.

“When it’s clear that I’m ready, you can start to use your fingers to venture downwards. Explore my pussy, but please don’t go straight for my clit. I’m not ready quite yet. The lips like to be rubbed, pulled, massaged. My actual vagina will probably be dripping, and dipping a finger in here is nice, but only to lubricate your exploration–don’t penetrate me yet.

“Put your mouth down there and literally just breath onto my clit. It feels great, I promise! Whether you want to start with your fingers or your tongue, I’ll eventually say to you “eat me! please!” in which case you’ll gladly oblige and probably use both body parts.

“This game of teasing and playing makes me feel so wanted, so loved, and like my pleasure is so important to you. It doesn’t really matter if we’ve hooked up twice or for two years, taking this time makes all the difference. Breathe with me. I know it sounds cheesy, but we’re connecting on a pretty intense level, and again, being on the same page is cool.”

Compliments count

“Once you’re inside of me, throw in an “Oh my God, you’re so beautiful.” straight off the bat, especially if I’m on top. Go slow and fast, wing it. Catch the vibe. Be assertive and communicative. Figure out positions by saying things like, “Does this feel good for you?”

“This is probably a good time to mention, that if I haven’t had a clitoral orgasm, it’s very, very, very unlikely that I will have a G Spot orgasm. The clit orgasm is a gateway for me. So, if you’re ever feeling like, “Oh let’s be spontaneous and skip some foreplay and I’ll just push her panties to the side like Jay Z talks about on Beyonce’s ‘Drunk in Love’… you better plan to f**k some, STOP, eat me out (or 69 or do hand stuff) THEN get back inside me so we can BOTH finish.

“Don’t ‘be spontaneous,’ then come right away, and leave me high and dry while you’re in your fucking ‘refractory period.’ So rookie. So unsexy.”

‘How to Make Me Come’: The Recipe

Hands-on time: About 15 minutes

Recipe makes: 1-2 orgasms

Ingredients

You


Me

A soft bed

Directions

Read the full blog HERE.