This is why you SHOULD buy old school Christmas cards this year

Christmas Card

by Eden-Olivia Lord |
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Christmas is fast approaching and here's why you should buy your friends, family and colleague a festive card...

Over the past few years there's been a rapid increase in the use of social media (we know, we're guilty) but it's come to light that lots more people prefer a traditional Christmas card compared to a text or an email over the festive period.

A new survey has shockingly revealed that half of the adults who took part in the Oxfam study would be left 'devastated' of the festive holidays if they didn't receive a handwritten Christmas card and instead were contacted over social media.

Over 80% of the people in the study admitted they believe more thought and feeling goes into a written card than a quick-fire text message or post.

We don't blame them, a quick DM or Facebook message can be pretty impersonal.

Check out Eastenders Christmas Day episodes...

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Eastenders Christmas Day episodes

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10. Frank Butcher RETURNS

Who could that be knocking on the door on Christmas Day? Santa? Rudolph? No, it's Frank Butcher of course! Frank made his return to Albert Square on Christmas Day 1995 after over a years absence, much to the horror of Pat, who'd recently shacked up with fellow car dealer Roy Evans. Awks!

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9. Jamie Mitchell's heartbreaking goodbye

One of EastEnders' saddest Christmas Day moments has to be when we said goodbye to the adorable Jamie Mitchell. His relationship with Sonia may have been short-lived (thanks to Martin Fowler, who accidentally knocked Jamie down in a dramatic hit and run), but it was definitely the real thing. Jamie and Sonia's love story came to a tragic end on Christmas Day 1998, when Jamie took his final breaths in hospital with Sonia by his side as the couple declared their undying love for each other. In true EastEnders style, Jamie's heartbreaking final moments were shown alongside scenes of Mo and Billy's marriage vows to the soundtrack of 'Stand by Me'. Basically, the whole nation was left bawling into their family-sized tubs of Celebrations.

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8. Max Branning comes back to Albert Square

Christmas Day 2016 saw the shock return of the infamous Max Branning. After serving time in prison after being falsely accused of Lucy Beale's murder, a bitter Max returned to the square in the last 30 seconds of the Christmas special. The 'duff duff duff' left us all gawping at our screens wondering what this meant for the residents of Albert Square - especially the Beales!

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7. Dirty Den serves Ange a divorce

We couldn't write an ultimate ranking of EastEnders' most SHOCKING Christmas Day episodes without throwing it back to the 80's when Den and Ange were the landlords of The Queen Vic (we know, nostalgia alert). Who can forget Christmas Day 1986 when Dirty Den presented Ange with a divorce-shaped Crimbo present, after finding out about her cancer lie. Only on EastEnders, eh!

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6. Pauline Fowler passes away (under the square's Christmas tree, of course!)

Feisty Pauline Fowler was in EastEnders for an incredible 21 years, so we have to admit, we were a little disappointed that her death was so, well, low key. After a bust-up with Sonia in The Queen Vic, Pauline took a little lie down under the square's Christmas tree... and never woke up again. It may not have been dramatic, but it was certainly moving.

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5. Archie Mitchell meets his maker

Villainous Archie Mitchell may have only been in EastEnders for a year and a half, but caused all sorts of trouble in that time. Things came to a head (pun intended!) on Christmas Day 2009, when Archie was whacked over the head with The Queen Vic's iconic bar statue in front of 10.9 million viewers. What a way to go.

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4. Evil Trevor torments Little Mo

Christmas 2001 was quite possibly EastEnders' bleakest festive showing of all time, as it focused on Little Mo and her abusive husband Trevor. The nation held its collective breath as we watched evil Trevor overflow Mo's Christmas dinner with gravy, before shoving the whole lot on the floor and making his terrified wife eat the remains off the carpet. Cheery it was not.

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3. Abi and Lauren fall off the roof of the Queen Vic

The Brannings are never far from the drama at Christmas and 2017 was no exception as Abi and Lauren headed to the roof of the Queen Vic to save their dad Max who was threatening to jump. But, in a dramatic turn of events, it was the girls who ending up falling off the roof, leaving pregnant Abi dead.

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2. Mick FINALLY discovers Dean raped Linda

Christmas Day 2014 saw Mick Carter go full Danny Dyer when he FINALLY found out about Dean raping Linda. After months of tension, Linda finally cracked under the pressure of Mick's romantic proposal and revealed that Dean attacked her. Naturally, furious Mick went straight for Dean's throat (destroying their Christmas dinner in the process), only halting his attack when Shirley dropped yet another bombshell – that Dean and Mick are brothers! What. A. Day.

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1. Max and Stacey's affair is revealed!

Christmas 2007 was an absolute corker of an episode that will be forever imprinted on our memories, as it was the year Max and Stacey's torrid affair finally came out into the open. For those who have forgotten (HOW COULD YOU?), the horrible truth came out when little Lauren reluctantly gave Bradley a copy of his wedding video for Christmas… although it turned out she'd actually caught Max and Stacey snogging each other's faces off on camera, much to the horror of the extended Branning family and, in fact, the rest of the nation.

The study also found that a lot of people don't like when friends send a group festive message to all their contacts, they think digital greetings lack thought and effort compared to a hand written card AND people who don't send a Christmas card have lost the true spirit of the festive period.

Eek!

It also came to light that one in ten people have 'defriended' someone because they didn't receive anything from them. With two thirds of those polled admitting they would be offended to receive a Christmas text, festive photo filter or seasonal status update from parents, siblings or a best friend.

So if you want to keep hold of your friends we reckon it's a good idea to send them a card or two...

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The survey also found that nine in ten adults still believe a Christmas card is the most fitting festive greeting of all. With two thirds of Brits warming at the idea of the thought and effort that goes into choosing, writing and posting a Christmas card – while 37 per cent look forward to reading the greeting inside.

Half of those polled feel sending a card shows someone really cares – and for one in ten, the sound of a card coming through the letterbox makes them feel a little less lonely.

It was also revealed that parents received the lengthiest messages, while best friends, siblings and children also receive detailed tidings.

Even though more and more people are communicating over the internet, on average Brits send 23 cards each year which totals at around a whopping 45 minutes writing them.

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If you're stuck picking the perfect Christmas card make sure you spell the name correctly, it arrives before Christmas and your hand writing is neat and tidy because a lot of people consider itthe ultimate faux pas.

Not only that but one in five feel nauseous receiving personalised cards of a beaming family, including the family pet among the list of senders also makes the list of seasonal social blunders.

Eek!

If you're too busy to buy a Christmas card why not get them online? Here's a few...

Bauble Tree Charity Christmas Cards - Pack of 8, Paperchase, £3.75

Scandi Charity Christmas Cards - Pack of 8, Paperchase, £3.75.

Hallmark Gallery Christmas Card Pack 'Snowy Scene' - 10 Cards, 2 Designs, Amazon, £4.99.

Box of 20 Charity Christmas Cards Starlit Fox / Hedgehog, Amazon, £7.99.

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