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If you have been struggling to have sex with a new partner, it could be possibly that you are suffering from a specific genealogical condition.
Vaginismus is a common sexual problem that causes the pelvic floor muscles to tighten involuntary whenever trying to have penetrative sex.
The results can be embarrassing, worrying and cause a loss of confidence as well as affect relationships.
What are the symptoms of vaginismus?
Symptoms can vary from not being able to insert anything into the vagina (even tampons) to some women still being able to have sex but finding it very painful.
What causes vaginismus?
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thoughts that your vagina is too small during sex
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negative sexual thoughts (fear of pain and damage to your vagina during sex)
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sexual abuse
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damage to the vagina such as from childbirth or episotomy
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Conditions such as vulvodynia
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Pain during sex previously
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Relationship issues
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Fear of becoming pregnant
What to do if I think I have vaginismus?
If you are worried about your sexual health, visit your GP and try and be as open as you can with your symptoms (we know it can be hard sometimes!). The more you tell your GP then the more they can help you. Trust us, they’ve heard it all before!
How is it treated?
Treatment of vaginismus depends on what has caused it in the first place.
If an infection is causing the symptoms then antibiotics or other appropriate medication will be prescribed.
If the cause is from a previous sexual trauma or from relationship problems, then the doctor may refer you to a counsellor where you can receive cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). You may also be given relaxation techniques to help ease symptoms.
In some cases, sufferers may be given vaginal trainers. They are similar to vibrators, but are designed to help your body get used to penetration.
If you have any concerns about your genealogical health, do not hesitate to contact your GP.