How to go sober and ditch the booze

Thinking of giving up alcohol? Here are some tips to keep you on the bandwagon and well on your way to feeling healthier and more in control of your life

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by Fiona Day |
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Whether its one drunken night out too many or your hangovers are becoming too dire to deal with, many of us have considered giving up the gin and tonics for good.

If you're serious about going sober- either for a month or permanently- there are plenty of ways to help you keep on the straight and narrow.

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Giving up booze

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Why would you give up?

You can go sober for many reasons all of which will ultimately benefit your health. You can quit the booze to: -Lose weight -Stop self destructive behaviour -Treat depression and anxiety -Get healthier -Save money

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Accept that your experiences will be different- but better!

A sober night out is going to be miles different from an wine-fuelled evening on the town. Rather then mourn the drunk, hazy filter you usually enjoy your nights out with try your best to embrace the clarity of your evenings. Your usual dive bar or cheesy night club might have to be digested with a large dose of irony instead of a jagerbomb, but when you’re out with the right people you’ll still have a good night (without the side of regret and nausea in the morning!).

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Try new things

Instead of stumbling home from your local, try and be inspired by trying out new places and meeting up with lots of different friendship groups rather than your usual drinking buddies. You can attend comedy shows, catch up on the latest movie releases and check out your favourite band instead.

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Save your booze money and treat yourself

Nights on the tequila train can cause a massive dent in your bank balance. Cutting back on the booze is not only great for your health and wellbeing but also benefits your finances, too. For every drink you DON’T have add it to a savings account. Pretty soon you’ll be able to buy that designer handbag you had your eye on or book that dream trip you’ve been hankering to go on.

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Organise dinner parties

Rather than while away the hours over a pint in the pub, organise a dinner party for friends in your own home. With all the delicious food on offer and the hilarious conversation you’ll hardly be thinking about booze!

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Make quirky 'mocktails'

Miss that Friday night cocktail? Order a nice mocktail instead. This way you won’t feel too left out or empty handed when the girls are getting the rounds in.

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Become the designated driver

The best way to make sure you don’t fall off the bandwagon is to commit to being the designated driver. With your group relying on you to get from A to B you won’t be able to reach for the vodka even if you felt tempted to. Remember, drink/driving is NEVER okay!

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Set a goal

Rather than give up alcohol indefinitely, decide that you’re going to go without booze for a certain period of time. This makes giving up the vino a bit more achievable and less overwhelming

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Don't jump off the bandwagon after one beer

So you had a beer or a glass of wine- don’t panic! This doesn’t mean that you have failed, we’re all human. Simply dust yourself off and try again. Go for a run or a long walk to clear your head and don’t beat yourself up about it.

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…But don't make excuses for yourself

At the same time don’t kid yourself into believing you have given up the booze when you’re STILL downing a bottle of wine on a Friday night. Do your best to think positive and remember why you’re choosing to give up boozing; to make yourself healthier and to live your life better.

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Always be prepared

Heading off to a house party or wedding? Be prepared for questions and intrigue over your decision. Prepare a few comebacks over pregnancy questions and provide yourself with some self affirmations for when people are offering you booze. Stick to your guns- you’ve made the RIGHT choice.

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Don't go it alone

If possible recruit a friend or ‘sober’ buddy to help your change you lifestyle. This can be someone who is already sober, a pregnant friend or someone else who wants to give up the booze. Keep a Whatsapp group and update each other on your progress, provide support for each other and share any struggles that you’re having. Also, why not start a blog charting your experiences? You'll find a whole community of people online who are going through exactly the same difficulties. Sometimes it helps simply to know that you're not alone in breaking the booze habit. For more advice visit www.drinkaware.com

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