TOWIE’s Chloe Sims: ‘I was abandoned by my mum’

The Only Way Is Essex star revealed how her birth mother walked out when she was just a toddler

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by Fiona Day |
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TOWIE star Chloe Sims has opened up about how her mum walked out and left when she was three years old.

"I don’t know my birth mum. I’ve no memory of her at all. I think it was because of her age- she was only 19 when she had me," she said.

Chloe claims her mum only tried to get in touch again when she found fame on the ITV show

"She emailed me about two years ago when I first started on TOWIE, but I didn’t reply.

"It was 27 years too late and I was a little bit over it by then. I’ve no desire to meet her or know her. I find it strange she’d wait that long to speak to her child."

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According to Chloe, another blow came when her mum didn’t seem interested in getting know her daughter Madison.

She revealed, "In the email she didn’t even mention Madison and she talked about herself more, so I don’t know what we’d have in common."

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Chloe's daughter Maddie has started to appear regularly in the show ©ITV

Chloe still has a strong relationship with dad, Tony, and he has attempted to build a relationship between Chloe and her estranged mother.

"My dad’s offered to help find her and every time I’ve said no.

"I don’t think about her," she added.

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Mark Wright and Sam Faiers

Mark and Sam's on/off relationship goes all the way back to when she was 16 and they met on MySpace (aw, those were the days). They briefly dated during their time on TOWIE but were never able to give things a proper go before he quit the show in 2011.

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Kirk Norcross and Amy Childs

Kirk and Amy's flirtationship was one of the main storylines during the first season of TOWIE and they eventually briefly dated before splitting in 2011. In a 2013 appearance on This Morning, Kirk admitted, "I will still love Amy until the day I die - she is literally like the girl version of me. When it didn't work out, it broke my heart really... and it wasn't her fault, it was both of our fault."

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Gemma Collins and Charlie King

Gemma and Charlie briefly dated in 2012 but split after she grew concerned about his friendship with Bobby Norris. Two years later, Charlie came out as gay during an appearance on This Morning. He's still friends with Gemma and even admitted in 2017 that he would consider being the GC's sperm donor if she asked.What a turn of events that would be.

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Lauren Goodger and Tom Pearce

Remember the days when Joey Essex's BFF Tom Pearce romanced basically every woman within a 10 mile radius of Brentwood? Lauren Goodger became one his many conquests following her split from Mark Wright but they hit the rocks when she caught wind of him bragging about their rendezvous.

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Mario Falcone and Chloe Sims

It's fair to say Chloe Sims has been unlucky in love over the years but things looked up for her when she began dating close pal Mario. Things moved quick for the pair and she even admitted she loved him - causing friction with BFF Lauren Pope who'd previously dated Mario - but he wasn't ready to settle down and called things off.

Harry Derbidge and Bobby Norris TOWIE6 of 11
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Harry Derbidge and Bobby Norris

After three years away from the TOWIE scene, OG cast member Harry Derbidge returned as Bobby Norris' boyfriend (in some very skimpy swimwear, nonetheless) during the cast's annual jaunt to Marbs.Their relationship ended in tears though when Harry confessed to sleeping with his ex while on holiday in Tenerife.

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Dan Osborne and Lucy Mecklenburgh

They've now found love with soap star other halves Jacqueline Jossa and Ryan Thomas but before that, Dan Osborne and Lucy Mecklenburgh were an item.They began dating in 2013 but called it quits amid claims he knew about his ex Megan Tomlin being pregnant before getting with Lucy.

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Charlie Sims and Ferne McCann

Ferne McCann's on/off relationship with Chloe Sims' brother Charlie provided LOTS of dramz on TOWIE over the years, with rumours she cheated on him cropping up more than once.Eventually Charlie publicly quit the show AND dumped Ferne at the same time in a series of tweets in 2014. Awks...

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Dan Edgar and Kate Wright

Before she wed footballer Rio and became Mrs Ferdinand, Kate Wright joined TOWIE as the ex of Dan Edgar, who reportedly dumped her to star in the show.She took him back after his romances with Lauren Pope and Jess Wright but it wasn't to be and they eventually split for good.

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Shelby Tribble and Tom McDonnell

Tom McDonnell joined TOWIE alongside a whole host of newbies including Harry Lee and Chloe Brockett in 2019 and soon caught the eye of Shelby Tribble following her split from Sam Mucklow.Sam soon came back on the scene though and Shelby dumped Tom to reunite with her ex. Sam and Shelby later quit the show together and are now expecting their first child.

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James Argent and Jasmin Walia

In between his long-running relationships with Lydia Bright and Gemma Collins, James Argent was set up on a blind date with Jasmin Walia and they appeared to hit it off. Things seemed to move too quickly for his liking though, causing him to run from her house after being introduced to her parents. Oh, Arg...

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In a recent episode of TOWIE, Chloe opened up about her anxiety and a therapist claimed it was linked to her childhood.

"The main thing that happened as a child is that my mum left. I genuinely don't remember it I was three... This is a bit too sad to talk about," she told the therapist before breaking down in tears.

She then opened up about how anxiety is affecting her life with her daughter Madison.

"Now I'm like it with my daughter, I'm obsessed with what she's doing, I don't like her in cars. It's so stressful, it's a stressful life being worried all the time.

"It's not in a needy way. I'm not afraid of people leaving me. I'm scared of something happening. I'm living in fear all the time.

"I feel like if I die what's going to happen to Mady? She's going to be left like I was."

In March 2022, Chloe's half-sister Frankie Sims shared a rare picture of her mum, and Chloe's stepmum, saying "Who needs a Valentine?"

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