Be self-sufficient
I came from a working-class family in Ilford and growing up, my dad made me very aware of the value of money. We were taught to be hard working and to never rely on anyone else. When I turned 16, I did numerous jobs, from working in a shoe shop, to doing paper rounds, and even car boot sales. I’ve always been independent and I’m proud of the fact that I’ve been able to provide for my kids.
Rejection makes you stronger
As an actor you suffer rejection time and time again. At 28, I landed my big break in Eastenders playing Melanie Healy, but before that I was turned down for numerous roles. It was hard going but gradually I developed a thick skin. My drama teacher once said to me: “It’s the journey, not the destination,” and I think as long as you love your craft, nothing will stand in your way.
The older you are, the better you get
We live in a society, where women are unnecessarily worried about ageing. But at 43, I feel wiser than ever and I’m embracing every minute of getting older. It’s inspiring to see strong, intelligent, female actresses, like Judi Dench, Julie Walters and Felicity Kendal, who are over all 60 and still landing leading roles. We’ve got a long way to go, but I think our attitudes towards older women are changing for the better.
Don’t be too hard yourself
I don’t spend time obsessing about my weight; instead I focus on how I feel. I’m never going to land myself a role playing a size 8 model, so there’s no point me dwelling about it. After I gave birth to Marnie, 2, I refused to lose weight quickly. I eat healthily majority of the time, and spend a few hours a week doing yoga. I feel good about myself right now and if I gain a few pounds it’s not the end of the world.
Tamzin is the style ambassador for the Clarks 'Back to School' campaign. For more information and to book a fitting appointment visit www.clarks.co.uk/school