Inside HRH Prince Philip and The Queen’s 73 year marriage: ‘She was truly in love from the very beginning’

Following the sad news of Prince Philip’s death last week, we look back at the Queen and Prince Philip’s amazing love story

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by Kaya Terry |
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There will never be another love story like Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip’s 73-year marriage. He was a dashing young naval cadet, while she was a young princess who would one day become Queen. The couple first met as children in 1934 at the wedding of Prince Philip’s cousin, Princess Marina, to Prince George, Duke of Kent. Although they didn’t know it at the time, they would go on to become one of the most powerful couples in the world.

“He has, quite simply, been my strength and stay all these years, and I owe him a debt greater than he would ever claim, or we shall ever know,” Elizabeth said of her husband as they celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in 1997. Together, they were well-versed in their duty to their country and shared a deep understanding of one another – that sentiment never wavered.

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Announcing their engagement at Buckingham Palace in 1946 ©Shutterstock

The couple faced many highs and lows throughout their relationship, providing unwavering support for each other.

After meeting at such a young age, they pair came across each other again when Philip, then 18, was studying at the Royal Naval College in Dartmouth. He had been lucky to avoid contracting mumps, unlike his fellow cadets, so when 13-year-old Princess Elizabeth came to visit, he was considered the perfect volunteer to give the young princess a tour of the college. Lilibet – as she was known to her family – quickly became enamoured with Philip and the two began writing letters to each other.

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On their wedding day in 1947 ©Getty Images

Elizabeth’s cousin, Margaret Rhodes, wrote in her autobiography that “Elizabeth was truly in love from the very beginning”, which comes as little surprise as Philip’s good looks were infamous. He was described as “a blond Greek Apollo”, “a Viking”, and “as handsome as any film star”.

However, his extroverted, outspoken nature was known to have rubbed a few people up the wrong way – Elizabeth’s father, King George VI, being one of them.

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The family pictured in 1986 ©Shutterstock

While Elizabeth was thoroughly convinced this was the man she was going to marry, her parents were not so keen. His rogue personality and upbringing were just a small part of the problem; it was largely due to his German heritage that the royals – just emerging from World War II – didn’t think him a suitable match.

Getting the in-laws on side probably wasn’t helped when Philip decided to propose to his Lilibet in secret, in 1946, before asking their permission. Naturally, Elizabeth said yes, and was eventually able to persuade her parents to approve the match. Her father’s only demand was that they wait until after she turned 21 to publicly announce the engagement.

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The Queen and Prince Philip are joined by their children: Prince Charles, Prince Andrew, Princess Anne and Prince Edward in 2007 ©Getty Images

Philip gave up his titles as well as his place in the line of succession to the Greek throne in order to become a British citizen – taking on the surname Mountbatten – and marry Elizabeth.

The wedding was a joyful affair for a country that had endured years of fear and austerity in the war. Elizabeth modestly used ration coupons for the material to make her Sir Norman Hartnell gown, which took 350 women seven weeks to make.

Two hundred million people tuned into the radio to hear the ceremony in which Elizabeth promised to “obey” her new husband – a vow that caused some controversy. As the future queen, many believed this wasn’t a necessary vow to make to Philip, but it’s clear Elizabeth wanted to show her wholehearted dedication to their marriage.

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Revisiting Broadlands to mark their Diamond Wedding Anniversary in 2007 ©Getty Images

Their first years as newlyweds were blissfully happy. Almost a year after their wedding, Prince Charles was born, and two years later they welcomed a baby girl, Princess Anne. During this time, Prince Philip served as an officer in the Royal Navy and was stationed in Malta. He and Elizabeth lived intermittently at Villa Guardamangia – the rented Maltese home of Philip’s uncle, Lord Mountbatten – and the children would stay at home in the care of their nannies and grandparents.

But this honeymoon period would come to an abrupt end in 1951. With the King’s health rapidly declining, the couple returned to the UK and Philip was given indefinite leave from the navy – although he would never return to his position.

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attending a polo match in 2018 ©Getty Images

Knowing the time would soon come for Elizabeth to ascend to the throne, she had taken on many of her father’s duties. It was while she was visiting Kenya as part of the Commonwealth tour that King George VI passed away. Having spent the day watching and photographing elephants, Elizabeth went to bed unaware of how greatly her life had changed. It was Philip who broke the news to his wife on 6th February 1952. She is said to have taken the news stoically, showing almost no distress. Elizabeth quickly returned home, with her husband at her side.

Queen Elizabeth was crowned on 2nd June 1953 and Philip supported her in all of her duties as reigning monarch.

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Together last year in 2020 ©Getty Images

Lord Charteris, private secretary to the Queen, once said, “Prince Philip is the only man in the world who treats the Queen simply as another human being. He’s the only man who can. Strange as it may seem, I believe she values that.”

In private, the Duke of Edinburgh is said to have referred to Her Majesty with nicknames, including “mon petit chou”, “cabbage”, “darling”, and “sausage”.

The couple went on to have two more children – Prince Andrew in 1960, and Prince Edward in 1964.

Over the years it was clear how much they doted and relied on each other.

They are the first royal couple to have celebrated a 70th wedding anniversary, and the Queen made sure to mark the occasion with a moving gift for Philip.

Check out: 50 vintage photos of The Queen and Prince Philip's royal love story

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Waving from Buckingham Palace, July 1947

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The couple officially announce their engagement at Buckingham Palace, July 1947

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After the engagement announcement, November 1947

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Elizabeth and Philip after announcing their engagement, July 1947

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Princess Elizabeth poses with her family and fiancé ahead of her marriage, 1947

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Photographed at Buckingham Palace shortly before their wedding, 1947

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Arriving at the Royal Variety Performance, November 1947

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Arriving at the Armistice Day service, November 1947

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The couple were married at Westminster Abbey on 20th November 1947

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Posing for official photos at the Palace after their wedding, November 1947

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Waving from the balcony of Buckingham Palace after the wedding, November 1947

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Honeymooning at Broadlands House, home to Philip's Uncle, November 1947

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Playing with a corgi while on honeymoon, November 1947

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Admiring wedding photos while honeymooning, November 1947

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Enjoying a walk on their honeymoon at Broadlands House in Hampshire, November 1947

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Arriving in Malta (where Philip was stationed with the Royal Navy) for the second part of their honeymoon, 1947

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Attending a charity ball at the Dorchester Hotel, 1948

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On board the 'Pamir,' March 1948

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Prince Philip receives the Freedom of the City of London, 1948

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Visiting the Arc de Triomphe, May 1948

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Attending the Royal Horse Show at Windsor, May 1949

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Arriving at the wedding of the Earl of Harewood and Marion Stein, 1949

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Posing with newborn Charles, July 1949

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After Princess Anne's christening, 1950

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Walking in the grounds of Clarence House, August 1951

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A family portrait session with the young Prince Charles and Princess Anne at Clarence House, 1951

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A photoshoot with the family, August 1951

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Visiting the Festival of Britain, 1951

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Royal tour of Quebec, 1951

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Enjoying a barn dance in Ottowa, 1951

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Photographed outside Balmoral, September 1952

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A candid shot with Princess Anne and Prince Charles, 1951

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Photographed with the children at Balmoral, September 1952

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Leaving Westminster Abbey in an ornate carriage following Elizabeth's coronation, June 1953

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Waving to the crowds from the balcony of Buckingham Palace following Elizabeth's coronation, June 1953

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Elizabeth poses for official photos with Philip following her coronation

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Visiting Northern Ireland on the Coronation Tour, 1953

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Photographing the arrival of an escort ship while en route to Fiji during the Coronation Tour, 1953

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Visiting Bermuda, November 1953

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Overseeing the children and two ponies in the grounds of Balmoral, August 1955

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Playing with corgis in the grounds of Balmoral, August 1955

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A trip to Nigeria, 1956

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Posing for photographs at Buckingham Palace, December 1958

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Posing for photographs at Buckingham Palace, December 1958

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The Queen and Prince Philip with corgis at Windsor Castle, 1959

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John and Jackie Kennedy visit Buckingham Palace, 1960

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John and Jackie Kennedy visit Buckingham Palace, 1960

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Leaving Manchester by train, May 1961

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Presenting Bobby Moore with the World Cup trophy, 1966

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Flying back from Yorkshire, filmed for a BBC and ITV documentary

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Sharing the news on Twitter, the Royal Household announced that “Her Majesty has appointed His Royal Highness The Duke of Edinburgh to be a Knight Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order”. That Christmas, in her annual speech, the Queen talked of her husband’s “support” and “unique sense of humour” saying, “Reflecting on these events makes me grateful for the blessings of home and family, and in particular for 70 years of marriage.”

In 2017, Prince Philip retired from his public role and enjoyed his retirement at Wood Farm in Windsor, while the Queen carried on her duties. The couple were believed to have spoken every day on the phone when apart.

And in the words of their granddaughter, Princess Eugenie, “Together, they are invincible.”

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