Kim Kardashian writes heartfelt blog about using a surrogate: ‘It was so hard to not carry my own child’

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by Eden-Olivia Lord |
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Kim Kardashian and Kayne West hired a surrogate to carry their third child

Earlier this week Kim Kardashian confirmed she and her husband Kanye West welcomed their third child into the world.

Announcing the exciting news, the KUWTK star wrote on her app: "We are incredibly grateful to our surrogate who made our dreams come true with the greatest gift one could give and to our wonderful doctors and nurses for their special care."

The reality star hasn't yet revealed her little ones name but that hasn't stopped fans from guessing following her latest Instagram post...

Check out: Khloe Kardashian's transformation over the years

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Khloe Kardashian's transformation

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7-year-old Khloe in a family portrait

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With the fam at the launch of Cinderella on DVD (90s vibes)

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21-year-old Khloe at a launch in California

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With Kim and Kourtney at the launch of Pete Wentz and Fall Out Boy's New Album 'Infinity on High' (a very noughties night out)

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At a DASH fashion show in 2007

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At the DASH Fall fashion show

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At a dinner hosted by Kim Kardashian in 2007

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At Fashion Week with Kim in 2007

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At a party in LA

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Backstage at Fashion Week in 2007

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At the Keeping Up With The Kardashians premiere party in Hollywood

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At the 'Keeping Up With the Kardashians' viewing party

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At Kim K's 27th birthday party at The Mirage hotel

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At an event in LA in 2007

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Papped in West Hollywood in 2007

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Out in Miami with Scott Disick and Kourtney in 2007

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Out in Miami in 2007

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With 50 Cent and Kourtney in 2008

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With sister Kourtney in 2008

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At a MAXIM magazine party

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Out in California in 2008

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At the launch party of season 2 of Keeping Up With The Kardashians

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At a party in 2008

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At a fashion show in 2008

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At a launch in 2008

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With 50 Cent and Kim at the MTV Australia Awards

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At a restaurant opening in 2008

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Celebrating her 24th birthday at PURE nightclub

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At the 2nd annual Celebrity Bowling Night in California

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At the McDonald's Big Mac 40th Birthday Party in Malibu

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During filming for Keeping Up With The Kardashians

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At the premiere for The House Bunny in 2008

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New Years in Las Vegas

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At DASH in 2009

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At the pre-Grammy party in 2009 with Kim and Kourtney

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At LIV nightclub in Florida

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Out in Beverly Hills with Kim and Kourtney

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In West Hollywood in 2009

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At Us Weekly's 'Hot Hollywood Style' Issue Launch Party

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At the art opening for Nigel Barker's 'A Sealed Fate?'

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Filming Kourtney and Khloe take Miami in 2009

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With Kourtney in Miami in 2009

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Attending the White Party hosted by Sean 'Diddy' Combs and Ashton Kutcher

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At YOGEN FRUZ in Beverly Hills

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With Lamar Odom and Rob in Beverly Hills

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With Lamar at a premiere in 2009

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Showing off her engagement ring in Beverly Hills in 2009

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At the 'Rich Soil' launch party in 2009

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At the 12th Annual Cracked Xmas 12 Gala at The Wiltern Theater

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Papped in New York in 2009

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Papped in Miami in 2010

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In California in 2010

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With Lamar at Casio's Shock the World 2010 event

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With the family at the 2010 Teen Choice Awards

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At a concert with Lamar in 2010

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Papped in New York in 2010

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With Kendall and Kylie and a premiere in 2010

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At a book signing with Kim and Kourtney

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At the 2011 People's Choice Awards

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At a Lakers game with Nicole Richie

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At Rob Kardashian's 24th birthday in 2011

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Visiting Extra at The Grove in 2011

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At Sugar Factory American Brasserie in 2011

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At the 2011 Teen Choice Awards

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At the Hollywood Style Awards in 2011

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At the Khaos Grand Opening at The Mirage Hotel and Casino

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At a restaurant opening in 2012

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At a Seventeen Magazine party in 2012

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August, 2012

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Khloe Kardashian at an appearance at the Mirage Hotel

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Presenting The X Factor with Mario Lopez in 2012

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At The X Factor viewing party

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At the Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards 2013

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At a book signing in 2013

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At the launch of 'Kardashian Beauty' in 2013

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With Kylie at the iHeartRadio Music Festival

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Papped in LA

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At the launch party for the Kardashian Kollection for Lipsy at Natural History Museum in London

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At KISS FM studio in London

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At The Hollywood Reporter's 22nd Annual Women In Entertainment Breakfast 2013

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Arriving at the Kardashian Khaos store at The Mirage Hotel & Casino

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In New York dressed in a 'F*CK YOUR FUR' faux fur coat

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At the 22nd Annual Elton John AIDS Foundation's Oscar Viewing Party

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At the DASH Miami opening

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Papped in LA

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Out with Kourtney in LA

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At the Tao Nightclub at The Venetian Las Vegas in 2014

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Papped at LAX in 2014

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Spotted in LA in 2014

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At Kim Kardashian's birthday in 2014

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At a launch in November 2014

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Papped at LAX in 2014

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With Grimmy and Kim K in London in 2014

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With Kendall and Kylie at the American Music Awards

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At 1 OAK Nightclub at The Mirage Hotel & Casino

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With Kendall at a basketball game in 2015

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At the launch of her Good American clothing line

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Khloe looking glam AF on the 'gram

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In the words of Kylie Jenner - "Is that a chicken"

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Obsessed with this hairdo

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With boyfriend Tristan Thompson in 2017

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Khloe Kardashian pregnant with her first child in 2018

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Khloe with family on Celebrity Family Feud in 2018

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Khloe at Tristan's birthday party

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Khloe's Madame Tussaud's waxwork unveiling

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Khloe with her first child (with Tristan), baby True Thompson

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Khloe at a basketball game in 2019

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Khloe and family on What Happens Live with Andy Cohen

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Khloe and Kim at the Armenian Institute event in 2019

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Khloe dressed as Diana Ross

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Khloe and True in 2019

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Khloe out and about in 2020

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Khloe and True in 2020

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Khloe at Kim's 40th birthday party in 2020

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Khloe working out in lockdown

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Khloe with True, Chicago (Kim's daughter) and Dream (Rob's daughter) in 2021

It first came to light in June last year that the A-list couple have hired a surrogateand were reportedly paying her $4,500 in monthly instalments. The 37-year-old mum has been open in the past about suffering from preeclampsia and placenta accreta and even admitted her fears about surrogacy.

She explained on Keeping Up With The Kardashians: "My biggest fear is that, if I had a surrogate would I love them the same. That's the main thing I keep thinking about... That scares me."

Kim and Kanye later decided that they would get a surrogate to carry their third child and now the mum-of-three has opened up about the difficulties she faced not carrying her newborn baby. On her app, she explained: "I have always been really honest about my struggles with pregnancy.

"Preeclampsia and placenta accreta are high-risk conditions, so when I wanted to have a third baby, doctors said that it wasn’t safe for my — or the baby’s — health to carry on my own.

"After exploring many options, Kanye and I decided to use a gestational carrier."

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She went on to reveal that gestational carrier is actually when the surrogate carries the baby but is not biologically related to it, "A traditional surrogate donates her egg, is artificially inseminated with the father’s sperm and then carries the baby to term.

"Since we implanted my fertilized egg in our gestational carrier, our baby is biologically mine and Kanye’s."

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She later explained to her fans why gestational carrier is not the "easy way out," she wrote: "People assume it’s better because you don’t have to deal with the physical changes, pain or complications with delivery, but for me it was so hard to not carry my own child, especially after I carried North and Saint."

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She concluded her post by admitting that the gestational carrier was "the best experience I've ever had" she went on to say: "Our gestational carrier gave us the greatest gift one could give.

"The connection with our baby came instantly and it’s as if she was with us the whole time. Having a gestational carrier was so special for us and she made our dreams of expanding our family come true.

"We are so excited to finally welcome home our baby girl."

Aww.

Shortly after Kim welcomed her third child into the world, fans began to question whether Kylie Jenner was her sister's surrogate.

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