Denise Welch opens up about postnatal depression: ‘I lost the ability to love my son’

Denise Welch

by Emma Dodds |
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Denise Welch has opened up about her struggle with postnatal depression after she gave birth to her son Matt Healy, singer of The 1975, in 1989.

Mum-of-two Denise, 59, opened up to Kate Thornton in an interview for BUILD LDN about how she suffered from PND after the birth of her first son.

She broke down in tears as she emotionally revealed that the illness robbed her of her ability to love her son.

WATCH: Denise Welch reveals why her son Matt Healy wrote a song about her depression

She said: "When Matthew was born I had an immediate rush of love like you expect to have for your child.

"And when the depression set in I lost the ability to love him because it robs you of every emotion... I didn't have any feeling for anything."

She held back the tears as she explained that her son, who is in the band The 1975, was then spurred on to write a song about the struggles she'd faced.

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The song, entitled She Lays Down, was inspired by Denise's admission to her son Matt that she used to lay down next to him as a baby and pray to feel something.

The former Coronation Street actress confessed: "I told Matthew that I used to lie down next to him and pray - I'm not religious - but pray to something to help me regain the love for my child."

Denise then turned to the audience and encouraged them to help others who they felt were in need.

She said: "The message I want to give to people is - with the right help, it will lift. The sun will come out again and you will love again. Please don't do anything drastic."

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