Does Coleen Rooney STILL fear for her future with Wayne?

Coleen Rooney tells husband Wayne to ‘try his best’ as he announces his retirement as a player

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by Zara Zubeidi |
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He hung up his international football boots in 2017, but last week former England captain Wayne Rooney bid farewell to playing the game and will now be the manager of Championship league team Derby County after securing a two-and-a-half year deal.

First to congratulate him was wife Coleen, 34 – mum to their sons Kai, 11, Klay, seven, Kit, four, and Cass, two – who posted, “Good luck in the next chapter of your career as manager, sure you’ll be great, but remember, all you can do is try your best.”

Football legend Gary Lineker praised the footballer, while Marcus Rashford thanked his former teammate for “making him feel so at ease” on his first day at Manchester United.

But as Wayne, 35, embarks on his new adventure, after 19 years playing on the pitch, he’ll face a huge test as he adjusts to life after retirement.

According to data from XPRO, a charity set up to help former footballers, two out of every five players go bankrupt within five years of retiring. The charity also reports that a third of players divorce within a year of ending their career. Meanwhile, the Professional Footballers’ Association welfare department reported a 40 per cent rise in current and former players using their service over the past four years. And research conducted by FIFPro found that a third of former footballers faced problems associated with depression and anxiety.

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Wayne, Coleen and their boys in 2018 ©Getty Images

Now psychotherapist Noel McDermott tells Closer that Wayne will need support from Coleen – who will face nemesis Rebekah Vardy on a video call next month in a bid to settle their current “WAGatha Christie” libel showdown.

Their 12-year marriage has faced numerous ups and downs, including cheating claims and reports of Wayne’s love of partying. And although he has kept a more low-key lifestyle since the last scandal in August 2019, when he was pictured getting into a hotel lift with a mystery woman on a night out with his former DC United teammates, Noel says it’s only natural for Coleen to be concerned for his welfare.

Check out: Coleen and Wayne Rooney's relationship from the very beginning

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Wayne and Coleen Rooney's relationship timeline - SLIDER

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Even though they first met at school when they were 12, Wayne and Coleen first started dating after they finished school at the age of 16.

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2002

At just 17 Wayne joined Everton football club and even though they'd only been dating a year Coleen admitted that they had already discussed getting married.At the time she admitted: "We want to spend the rest of our lives together and there's no stronger commitment than getting married."

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2003

The happy couple got engaged in 2003 at a petrol station after Wayne got down on one knee. He asked his childhood sweetheart to spend the rest of their lives together with a £46,500 engagement ring.

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2004

Coleen discovered that Wayne slept with a 48-year-old nan in a brothel back in 2002

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2005

The WAG then defended her fiancé and admitted when he cheated they hadn't slept together yet. She added, "we weren't having that kind of relationship at that stage."

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2007

Wayne and Coleen looked totally loved up at a public event a year before they got married

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2008

At the age of 22, Wayne and Coleen tied the knot in a church in Italy!

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2008

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2009

2009 – A year after their wedding, the happy couple welcomed their first child Kai into the world

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2010

Just a year after they had their first child it was alleged that while Coleen was pregnant, Wayne cheated with prostitutes Jennifer Thompson and Helen Wood.

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2010

Even though Coleen and Kai moved out of their family home following the allegations, the married couple put their troubles aside and reunited.

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2013

The happy couple look so adorable with their son Kai while they await the arrival of their second child

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2013

The Rooneys welcomed their second baby into the world – Klay

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2016

In 2016, the Rooney family welcome baby Kit into the world

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2017

During the summer holidays Coleen denied being pregnant after this photo emerged (even though she was)

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2017

After denying her pregnancy for weeks the happy couple soon confirmed the exciting news - that they're having their fourth child!

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2017

It was shortly after the Rooneys announced they're having their fourth child that Wayne was pictured and arrested for drunk driving.

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2017

Things went from bad to worst after it came to light that Wayne was driving Laura Simpson's car. She then spoke out and claimed that they "had a kiss, a hug, some banter, harmless fun".

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2017

It was then reported that Coleen along with her sons had fled from the family home after revealing her marriage was over.

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2017

Following the scandal, Wayne received a driving ban for two years following his arrest and Laura appeared on This Morning to deny ever cheating with the footballer.

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2017

After weeks of speculation around the couples marriage, it appeared that all was forgiven and forgotten as it was reported that the pair were planning on renewing their wedding vows.

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2017

Coleen then surprised everyone by being totally honest in a Facebook post and admitted that although she's been through a "shit time" she decided to forgive her husband because she wants to "try and continue our marriage and live as a family".

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2018

In February 2018 the Rooney family got even bigger as the happy couple welcomed their fourth child into the world - baby Cass!Yup. They broke their tradition with names beginning with 'K' but the little is adorable so who cares, ey?

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2018

The happy couple celebrated their 10-year wedding anniversary by sharing a collage of the years they've spent together. Coleen wrote alongside her Instagram snap: "Today we are celebrating our 10th wedding anniversary!!! Time goes so quick.... so many great times together to remember ❤ufe0f "

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2018

The footballer also posted a dozen snaps of his wife and wrote alongside the post: "Celebrating our 10th wedding anniversary today. Amazing memories with @coleen_rooney and lots more to make ❤ufe0f "

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Coleen and Wayne together ©Getty Images

He says, “This new chapter could cause drama between them both. These major life transitions can be stressful. It’s not necessarily the case that he’s going to behave the way he did again, but it may be that because of anxieties about their life change, Coleen starts to interpret behaviours in a certain way. My advice to them is to discuss openly any fears that they have.

“It’s a big change for them both, but having a new sense of responsibility may help, for example, by getting involved in more charity work together.”

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Former footballer Clarke Carlisle, 41, opened up in 2016 about the emotional impact of quitting the sport, revealing he’d tried to take his own life. He said, “It’s difficult... Everything in your life is structured and all of a sudden that gets taken away.”

Aston Villa star Lee Hendrie spoke about his battle with depression following retirement in 2013, while former teammate Paul Merson revealed he’d struggled with alcoholism and gambling.

In 2017, Wayne reportedly lost £500k in a late-night gambling spree, and in 2006, allegedly settled a £700k gambling debt, which he was said to have run up over five months.

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Noel warns that Wayne needs to be aware of the heightened risks after retirement. He says, “It’s what we call transition shock and particularly affects men. Very often, retirement comes with losing status and the things that help give a sense of meaning, purpose and direction. There can be a big issue with loss of identity.

“With any major life change, there’s a risk of turning to coping mechanisms. For Wayne, with his experience of gambling, the regression could be serious. He and Coleen need to be aware of the risks. Coleen’s spent two decades invested in her husband’s career, so she may also have fears about what’s to come for them as a couple. When there’s change, the fear is that patterns in a marriage could be disrupted. The question is whether they’ll be able to adapt.”

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