Mum desperately pleads for help after discovering her husband was having an affair – with her DAUGHTER

This is AWFUL.

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by Emma Dodds |
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A mum-of-three has written to an online agony aunt in desperation after discovering her husband was cheating on her - with her own DAUGHTER.

Before we go any further into this, let us clarify now: it is her daughter's step-father, not his biological daughter.

But STILL.

The woman anonymously wrote into American site Ravishly's Ask Erin section, where she revealed that she had known about the affair for over a YEAR and tried to continue living with it.

After asking them to stop, she has kept finding clues that they are still seeing each other: "I keep catching text messages they send each other, talking about how much they love each other. I also found love cards they've given each other."

If you're wondering why on earth she has stayed with the man, it's all a bit complicated: "I am financially dependent on my husband. If I kick him out, I lose the house and everything."

Although if you ask us, it's still not worth it.

"I have been stuck in this nightmare for a year and I can't take another day. I am desperate for help! I cannot take it anymore.

"They won't stop and I'm completely depressed, lost, broken, disgusted, and hurt. We don't have sex or anything anymore either! Please help me!"

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The woman had lived with the affair for an entire year - but reached out to Ask Erin as she couldn't take it anymore (Credit: Getty Images) ©Getty Images

Erin is obviously appalled, and advises her to do what we thought she should have done a year ago: "I don’t know how you’ve lasted over a year in this. OMG, I would not be able to do the same.

"I know that you are scared because of your financial dependency, but your sanity is WORTH more than any house or dollar amount in the bank.

"I am so sorry that you are in this situation. It truly sounds like a nightmare. What makes it a nightmare is that your daughter is involved in the betrayal. Deep breath."

She then tells her to worry about the relationship with the daughter later, once she has gotten herself out of this mess.

She says: "YOU CAN DO THIS. It all seems very overwhelming, understandably so, but you do have options, and you can make your way out of this mess.

"And lean on trustworthy friends and family. I know you may feel humiliated by the situation, but you have done nothing wrong. Don't keep this secret for them any longer. Allow your loved ones to help keep you up and afloat."

We hope the woman gets herself out of this situation - pronto!

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