Jogger’s open letter to fat shamer: ‘If my fat arse running offends you try driving into a lamp post’

A runner has penned a brilliant letter standing up to a man who ‘fat shamed’ her

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by Fiona Day |
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When Lindsey Swift, 26, from Barnsley went running earlier this week, she was shocked and embarrassed when a man drove up beside her and started to joke about her weight.

The van driver even leaned out of his window to sing Mika’s Big Girl (You Are Beautiful) at her as she trained.

Rather than brush off the incident, Lindsey decided to take action and wrote an inspirational open letter to her harasser.

Taking to Facebook, she typed: “Your comment was a clear indication of both your incredibly witty repartee and a feat of observational comedy. I am indeed a big girl, and I am indeed beautiful. Thanks for noticing. I'm not sure who you were telling I was fat, you clearly have eyes, and the only other people present were me and my boyfriend.

“I assure you that despite your concern I do own a mirror, and my boyfriend has seen my fat body as he too has eyes. Don't tell anyone but I think he might even like it.

“Normally I don't get militant about these things, idiots are idiots. However, I can see why comments like these might put a person less confident than me off from running, and that is shameful. Everyone starts somewhere.

“Let me make one thing very clear, I am not ashamed of my body. It has never stopped me from doing anything I want.

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"My fat body has done things that you, hanging out of the window of your babe-magnet white van could only ever dream of. My fat body has been swimming in crystal clear Thai seas that you have probably only ever seen on TV. It has lived in countries you wouldn't dream of visiting and been a part of cultures you are too small minded to appreciate. My fat legs have carried me up mountains on more than one occasion.

“My fat brain speaks languages you probably don't see the point of learning, which is why you spend your time hanging out of van windows since you have nothing better to occupy it with.

“Recently I made the decision to get fit as I thought it would be a fun thing to do, and good for my health. Not that I have to justify my body to you, but I have a goal to run 10k, and I will get there.

“I’m a stone lighter than I was, and can do a whole host of things I couldn't do before. It baffles me that anyone would try to discourage that kind of effort. Excuse me if my assumptions about you are wrong, but I only have your actions to go by. If my fat arse running (quite slowly I might add, I was bloody shattered) offends you and spoils your journey, try driving with your eyes closed, into a lamp post.

“But in all seriousness, now I have written this, I feel sorry for you. Your behaviour is not normal, and your manners are well below par. Most importantly though, I forgive you. Here's hoping that anyone with a goal, fat or thin, isn't put off by this kind of thing. I know I haven't been.”

She then finished with: “Engage your brain before opening your mouth.”

The post has now had over 19,5000 shares on Facebook, showing that many other women feel inspired by her letter.

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